We have been blogging about the transportation needs for Trenton seniors and Wednesday gave us another example of service problems. Several of our seniors did not get back from their nutrition center lunch program in time to meet our candidates. Once again, driver unavailability meant dispatch inadequacies.
Eric Jackson, running for the office of Mayor, was our first speaker. He has a background in finance and "customer friendly" service. His years working with Henry J. Austin and the city's welfare division gave him insight into structured health care and ideas how to move forward. In 1999 he became director of Trenton's Public Works. Subsequently he implemented a street paving program, currently budgeted at $600,000 to $800,000 per year, which can resurface fifty to seventy-five streets each year curb to curb. Another innovation is the "pot hole truck" that uses permanent hot emulsion repair and needs only one man to operate. Previously, temporary "cold patches" required a crew of three men to fill a pot hole. Also, if his concept of costumed historical figures, guiding vistors and demonstrating crafts, is developed, there could be a tourist bonanza.
Keith Hamilton, also a Mayoral Candidate, is probably best known for his years serving as Mercer County Freeholder. Now he feels that he is the best qualified for the financial challenges facing Trenton. He emphasizes the need to "stabilize the revenue stream after years of mismanagement." He would like to see leasing of city assets instead of outright sale. He would ask Governor Christie to "make his tax payment". He thinks Trenton should be entitled to Federal funding because of its historical significance. At one time we were even considered as the Nation's capital and this should be recognized.
Ernest Perez, Jr. is candidate for Councilman at Large. He is a resident of the South Ward and feels that there should be more attention to city services. "We are in the service business." He is a local community activist known for recreation, ballpark development, fishing...which led him to discuss the proposed marina for Trenton. He feels that the whole project, from boardwalk to marina, is long overdue and would be a terrific idea. He recalled Cadwalader Park, "We lost a lot and there's no plan to bring it back." He thinks that the answer to the Capital Tax question might be charging the Capital for the services Legislators enjoy. Another idea is that of a head tax for workers who do not reside in the city but work here.
Phyllis Holly-Ward is also running for Councilman at Large. She addressed senior issues such as housing. "You hear the same things over and over." and would put inspectors on the job to improve conditions. Also disseminating information is important and she would like a watchdog to monitor such services. "Seniors are a big issue and we have to honor the senior base because it sends a message to everyone else." She acknowleged the importance of transportation for seniors and the disabled, "Resources have to be allocated and City Council is checks and balances for everything". Also she thinks that a clean city sends a message that "Clean streets feel safer" and will work to a beautification campaign. She is working for a unified city and pointed out that continuously printing out dual posters in both English and other languages creates separation. One of the reasons that students are currently failing state graduation exams is that they have difficulty with English, so obviously this should be emphasized in our high schools.
Paul Pintella, Mayoral Candidate, was our final guest of the day. He used to live in the old Cigar Factory so he remembered when Pellettieri Homes was a factory building. He asserts that "If you want to work here, you should live here." Because this is a challenging times fiscally, and there is a perception of crime, "It is a time for experience. Would you go to a mechanic if you were sick?"
He asserts that people are moving here, that it is unprecedented for growth and there is room for families and becoming a microcosm of "what a nice town can be". He updated us on the Water Company controversy by pointing out that the pipes lying in outlying townships were the only elements for sale. The water filtration plant is in the City of Trenton and would continue to produce water which would be sold separately to Hamilton, Ewing, and others, to produce a constant source of income even after the lines are sold.
Just a thought...the pipeline sections in the outside townships are maintained by Trenton workers who presently have to leave Trenton proper to work. Yipes! And we are carrying insurance on these guys to work in areas out of our jurisdiction? There has to be a cost saving here I bet. Imagine if Hamilton or Ewing decided to put a head tax on a Trenton water company worker because they were working in Hamilton but did not live there.
In summary, we are impressed with the energy and qualifications of the candidates running this spring. We have two weeks before the election to sort out our notes and discuss items and issues that caught our attention. One thing that I do want to say, regardless of the controversy in the media, there are awesome brainpower and really good intentions evident in these candidates. I am inclined to be hopeful that the cream will float to the top.
It is now up to us.
Trenton Rocks!
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Pellettieri's 3rd Candidate Meet and Greet
In spite of steady rain yesterday, the candidates doggedly came out to Pellettieri Homes. Our location in the Roebling Market made it feasible for John Harmon, Mr. Shahid Watson, Juan Martinez and Algernon Ward, Jr. to visit with us on short notice. With the six remaining candidates scheduled for Wednesday afternoon, this gave us quality time with these four.
Mr. John Harmon, candidate for Mayor, was our first speaker. He gave us an impressive business resume which included President of the Trenton Chamber of Commerce. He would run the city as a "Customer Service Driven" business where, if you did not perform, you would be fired. He commented that some areas of the city seem to have been overlooked in the present administration. He would change this. The input from each ward would reflect their special priorities. "Everyone pays his fair share and is entitled to the same share of services". He faults the Mayor's office for letting the union hall leave town. "Now you need a driver's license and a GED to be a bricklayer and carpenter". He thinks there should be a survey of the city's needs and specific training programs tailored to fit these needs. From his banking experience, he feels that micro loans marketing can help start up businesses.
Our second Mayoral candidate was Mr. Shahid Watson. He shared his personal challenges, the lack of family support in childhood, not having a regular roof over his head, and yet he managed to get to college. He stated that he is not used to Council meetings but prefers "action" because "The city systems are a mess!" The city cannot survive if the $34 million dollars are taken from its budget, so he thinks that there will be an eventual compromise with the Governor's Office. He would create a "Bureau of Senior Needs". Senior citizens should reconnect with youth and, addressing the ladies in attendance, he called on them to use their wisdom to teach "how to sew, how to cook, how to be a lady". He summed up by saying "We need new thinking out of the box."
Juan Martinez is running for one of the three At Large Council seats, campaigning on a platform of safe education and safe streets. He was instrumental in Pellettieri Homes getting bank approval from NJ Housing over a decade ago. He is aware of deplorable conditions for seniors in Trenton. He pointed out that there is a lot of funding that never gets paid out because the city has no grant writer. He thinks the city needs changes and a grant writer, who works on commissions, would be productive. In his present work for the Board of Education, he has a close look at the school situation. He thinks this generation is a lost generation and laying off teachers will make things worse. Kids who are raising babies, without being given a chance to grow up themselves, need hope. If there were courses of study available, in nursing, clean energy and green jobs, we would be investing in the city's future as well as theirs.
The final candidate for the afternoon was Algernon Ward, Jr. also running for one of the At Large Council seats. He grew up in the city of Trenton and attended its schools. One summer, as a Boy Scout, he spent five days in wilderness training learning to survive by living off the land. What he learned about himself gave him confidence in his own abilities. Today, he is a living example that the city's educational system can work. His groundwork for this job includes spending a full year learning about the city of Trenton. He is a "Leadership of Trenton Fellow" who studied its history, budget, school systems, police and judicial departments with the intent to prepare himself to serve the community. When asked about senior issues, he expressed concern about some city senior housing. He would take a personal interest in correcting abuses and get inspectors on the job so residents are not afraid to speak up for their rights. Mr. Ward is employed as a research scientist for the Department of Health, working with water, air and heavy metals which gives him a unique perspective into the environmental health of the city. He opposed the sale of the Trenton Water Company and noted that it has now been put to a referendum for this November. He thinks the budget crisis is critical but "Panic is the worst thing you can do." He cited the Boy Scout motto: "Be prepared." and added, "Don't lose your head".
Our final Meet and Greet is scheduled for 3:00 pm Wednesday April 28. Candidates lined up are Mayoral candidates Eric Jackson, Keith Hamilton, and Paul Pintella. At Large candidates are Ernest Perez, Jr., Donelle M. Presha and Phyllis Holly-Ward.
Everyone is welcome. Pellettieri Homes is at 615 S. Clinton Ave. in the Roebling market.
Have a nice day.
Mr. John Harmon, candidate for Mayor, was our first speaker. He gave us an impressive business resume which included President of the Trenton Chamber of Commerce. He would run the city as a "Customer Service Driven" business where, if you did not perform, you would be fired. He commented that some areas of the city seem to have been overlooked in the present administration. He would change this. The input from each ward would reflect their special priorities. "Everyone pays his fair share and is entitled to the same share of services". He faults the Mayor's office for letting the union hall leave town. "Now you need a driver's license and a GED to be a bricklayer and carpenter". He thinks there should be a survey of the city's needs and specific training programs tailored to fit these needs. From his banking experience, he feels that micro loans marketing can help start up businesses.
Our second Mayoral candidate was Mr. Shahid Watson. He shared his personal challenges, the lack of family support in childhood, not having a regular roof over his head, and yet he managed to get to college. He stated that he is not used to Council meetings but prefers "action" because "The city systems are a mess!" The city cannot survive if the $34 million dollars are taken from its budget, so he thinks that there will be an eventual compromise with the Governor's Office. He would create a "Bureau of Senior Needs". Senior citizens should reconnect with youth and, addressing the ladies in attendance, he called on them to use their wisdom to teach "how to sew, how to cook, how to be a lady". He summed up by saying "We need new thinking out of the box."
Juan Martinez is running for one of the three At Large Council seats, campaigning on a platform of safe education and safe streets. He was instrumental in Pellettieri Homes getting bank approval from NJ Housing over a decade ago. He is aware of deplorable conditions for seniors in Trenton. He pointed out that there is a lot of funding that never gets paid out because the city has no grant writer. He thinks the city needs changes and a grant writer, who works on commissions, would be productive. In his present work for the Board of Education, he has a close look at the school situation. He thinks this generation is a lost generation and laying off teachers will make things worse. Kids who are raising babies, without being given a chance to grow up themselves, need hope. If there were courses of study available, in nursing, clean energy and green jobs, we would be investing in the city's future as well as theirs.
The final candidate for the afternoon was Algernon Ward, Jr. also running for one of the At Large Council seats. He grew up in the city of Trenton and attended its schools. One summer, as a Boy Scout, he spent five days in wilderness training learning to survive by living off the land. What he learned about himself gave him confidence in his own abilities. Today, he is a living example that the city's educational system can work. His groundwork for this job includes spending a full year learning about the city of Trenton. He is a "Leadership of Trenton Fellow" who studied its history, budget, school systems, police and judicial departments with the intent to prepare himself to serve the community. When asked about senior issues, he expressed concern about some city senior housing. He would take a personal interest in correcting abuses and get inspectors on the job so residents are not afraid to speak up for their rights. Mr. Ward is employed as a research scientist for the Department of Health, working with water, air and heavy metals which gives him a unique perspective into the environmental health of the city. He opposed the sale of the Trenton Water Company and noted that it has now been put to a referendum for this November. He thinks the budget crisis is critical but "Panic is the worst thing you can do." He cited the Boy Scout motto: "Be prepared." and added, "Don't lose your head".
Our final Meet and Greet is scheduled for 3:00 pm Wednesday April 28. Candidates lined up are Mayoral candidates Eric Jackson, Keith Hamilton, and Paul Pintella. At Large candidates are Ernest Perez, Jr., Donelle M. Presha and Phyllis Holly-Ward.
Everyone is welcome. Pellettieri Homes is at 615 S. Clinton Ave. in the Roebling market.
Have a nice day.
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Sex and the Senior
Its bad enough when children recognize that their parents have sex lives, but it is even worse when they realize that Grandpa (and or Grandma) are still being intimate. As folks age the common assumption is that they shrivel and just dry up. In today's active and assertive elder population, the reality is that the rate of HIV and AIDS is increasing. This is partly because of casual approach to the consequences but if someone came up with a condom called "Centrum Silver" I bet there would be more attention.
About a year ago, one of our guest speakers, Abby Katz, working with a Office of the Aging grant, came out to bring us up to date. The Sex and the Senior session was well attended, with ages from 60 to 101, but answering questions about masturbating and frequency were uncomfortable for these folks raised with old Catholic standards.
But everyone can laugh at themselves. Humor is universal, whether in your twenties or eighties, and keeps life spicy. One of my senior pals sent me an email collection of Hollywood Squares anecdotes and I almost had an accident laughing at them. I hope that there is no copyright problem here, these came from the internet, but I really have to share them with you. I dedicate the following to everyone out there who is still interested in sex, involved or intimate.
This is taken from a April 22 email from one of my art contacts:
Hollywood Squares' Peter Marshall was the host who asked the questions of a number of celebrity contestants.
Q. Do female frogs croak?
A. Paul Lynde: If you hold their little heads under water long enough.
Q. If you're going to make a parachute jump, at least how high should you be?
A. Charley Weaver: Three days of steady drinking should do it.
Q. True or False. A pea can last as long as 5,000 years.
A. George Gobel: Boy, it sure seems that way sometimes.
Q. You've been having trouble going to sleep. Are you probably a man or a woman?
A. Don Knotts: That's what's been keeping me awake.
Q. Which of your five senses tends to diminish as you get older?
A. Charley Weaver: My sense of decency.
Q. According to Cosmopolitan, if you meet a stranger at a party and you think that he is attractive, is it okay to come out and ask him if he's married?
A. Rose Marie: No. Wait until morning.
Q. What are 'Do it,' "I Can Help", and "I Can't Get Enough'?
A. George Gobel: I don't know but its coming from the next apartment.
Q. As your grow older, do you tend to gesture more or less with your hands while talking?
A. Rose Marie: You ask me one more growing old question Peter, and I'll give you a gesture you'll never forget.
Q. Paul, why do Hell's Angels wear leather?
A. Paul Lynde: Because chiffon wrinkles too easily.
Q. In bowling, what's a perfect score?
A. Rose Marie: Ralph, the pin boy.
Q. Charley, you've just decided to grow strawberries. Are you going to get any during the first year?
A. Charley Weaver: Of course not, I'm too busy growing strawberries.
Q. It is considered in bad taste to discuss two subjects at nudist camps. One is politics, what is the other?
A. Paul Lynde: Tape measures.
If you appreciate these, please comment. I will print out more next time.
My girl friend told me that "We don't stop laughing because we grow old, we grow old because we stop laughing!" My conviction is... that laugh wrinkles are the best kind.
Have a nice day.
About a year ago, one of our guest speakers, Abby Katz, working with a Office of the Aging grant, came out to bring us up to date. The Sex and the Senior session was well attended, with ages from 60 to 101, but answering questions about masturbating and frequency were uncomfortable for these folks raised with old Catholic standards.
But everyone can laugh at themselves. Humor is universal, whether in your twenties or eighties, and keeps life spicy. One of my senior pals sent me an email collection of Hollywood Squares anecdotes and I almost had an accident laughing at them. I hope that there is no copyright problem here, these came from the internet, but I really have to share them with you. I dedicate the following to everyone out there who is still interested in sex, involved or intimate.
This is taken from a April 22 email from one of my art contacts:
Hollywood Squares' Peter Marshall was the host who asked the questions of a number of celebrity contestants.
Q. Do female frogs croak?
A. Paul Lynde: If you hold their little heads under water long enough.
Q. If you're going to make a parachute jump, at least how high should you be?
A. Charley Weaver: Three days of steady drinking should do it.
Q. True or False. A pea can last as long as 5,000 years.
A. George Gobel: Boy, it sure seems that way sometimes.
Q. You've been having trouble going to sleep. Are you probably a man or a woman?
A. Don Knotts: That's what's been keeping me awake.
Q. Which of your five senses tends to diminish as you get older?
A. Charley Weaver: My sense of decency.
Q. According to Cosmopolitan, if you meet a stranger at a party and you think that he is attractive, is it okay to come out and ask him if he's married?
A. Rose Marie: No. Wait until morning.
Q. What are 'Do it,' "I Can Help", and "I Can't Get Enough'?
A. George Gobel: I don't know but its coming from the next apartment.
Q. As your grow older, do you tend to gesture more or less with your hands while talking?
A. Rose Marie: You ask me one more growing old question Peter, and I'll give you a gesture you'll never forget.
Q. Paul, why do Hell's Angels wear leather?
A. Paul Lynde: Because chiffon wrinkles too easily.
Q. In bowling, what's a perfect score?
A. Rose Marie: Ralph, the pin boy.
Q. Charley, you've just decided to grow strawberries. Are you going to get any during the first year?
A. Charley Weaver: Of course not, I'm too busy growing strawberries.
Q. It is considered in bad taste to discuss two subjects at nudist camps. One is politics, what is the other?
A. Paul Lynde: Tape measures.
If you appreciate these, please comment. I will print out more next time.
My girl friend told me that "We don't stop laughing because we grow old, we grow old because we stop laughing!" My conviction is... that laugh wrinkles are the best kind.
Have a nice day.
Council Candidates Weigh In
Election Day, May 11, is going to be challenging for Trenton voters. With over thirty candidates running for office, voters must be informed so they can sort out the best qualified. We hosted several At Large and North Ward Council hopefuls Wednesday evening but it was a long night for our seniors and we may have to reschedule Al Ward and Juan Martinez for a later date.
Roland Laird, North Ward Council candidate, started off our evening with his views of improving Trenton. He would like restore "neighborliness" to the city. He referred to his business experience and would like to encourage micro financing for small business startups. The state of our schools concerns him and he would like to see Health and Human Services be more involved in screening students in jeopardy before home circumstances result in truancy and lack of success. He thinks that high expectations can produce results and vocational schools might work against that.
Our second North Ward Council candidate, Divine Allah, is a 37 year old activist who thinks reaching young people is an answer to Trenton's current problems. He will work to "reconnect" the young to elders. He pointed out that our capital city has no entertainment or things to do. He suggests that the young are "supposed to think of culture and learn" and he considers himself, "I'm like a glass to be filled with wisom." When asked about his Black Panther views, he asserted that the Black Panther Party is no longer isolated in the community but "actions speak louder than words" and he uses the panther as an "icon" to motivate.
Tywannette "Missy" Balmir is candidate for one of the At Large Council seats. Her presentation was direct and emphasized the school dilemma. She referred to her experience working for Congressman Rush Holt and Mayor Palmer. She thinks that "elected leadership has the responsiblity to take care of our most vulnerable as we close the budget gap." Present challenges are "systemic" and the "success of the city impacts the success of its schools". She has an "out of the box" suggestion for the Board of Education. She proposes to set it up like the city of Camden with three Board Members elected in general election, three Board Members appointed by the Mayor, and three Board Members elected by Council.
Darren Green is also running for one of the At Large Council seats. He has considerable experience with young people and "disorderly behavior". He is presently wearing two hats as Shift Commander for the Corrections Department and Administrator of the Emily Fisher Charter School. He pointed out that many of today's trouble youth are the product of parents who themselves have never had the chance to grow up. They are very young and lack the mature skills to raise children so there is no positive role model. These youth need to be taught civility, positive values, how to be productive and here must be more parental involvement. Seniors could help by mentoring. "The old should not live in fear of the young." He thinks the city has been run into the ground and if elected, "Hold us accountable."
Our next Meet and Greet is scheduled for Wednesday afternoon, April 28, at 3 pm. Pellettieri Homes is located in the Roebling Mall at 615 S. Clinton Avenue, and everyone is welcome. The lineup for Wednesday includes: Mayoral Candidates Eric Jackson, Keith Hamilton, Paul Pintella, John Harmon and Mr. Shahid Watson. We also are expecting At Large Candidates Ernest Perez Jr., Donelle M. Presha and Phyllis Holly-Ward.
Come and meet your candidates. Trenton needs your support.
Roland Laird, North Ward Council candidate, started off our evening with his views of improving Trenton. He would like restore "neighborliness" to the city. He referred to his business experience and would like to encourage micro financing for small business startups. The state of our schools concerns him and he would like to see Health and Human Services be more involved in screening students in jeopardy before home circumstances result in truancy and lack of success. He thinks that high expectations can produce results and vocational schools might work against that.
Our second North Ward Council candidate, Divine Allah, is a 37 year old activist who thinks reaching young people is an answer to Trenton's current problems. He will work to "reconnect" the young to elders. He pointed out that our capital city has no entertainment or things to do. He suggests that the young are "supposed to think of culture and learn" and he considers himself, "I'm like a glass to be filled with wisom." When asked about his Black Panther views, he asserted that the Black Panther Party is no longer isolated in the community but "actions speak louder than words" and he uses the panther as an "icon" to motivate.
Tywannette "Missy" Balmir is candidate for one of the At Large Council seats. Her presentation was direct and emphasized the school dilemma. She referred to her experience working for Congressman Rush Holt and Mayor Palmer. She thinks that "elected leadership has the responsiblity to take care of our most vulnerable as we close the budget gap." Present challenges are "systemic" and the "success of the city impacts the success of its schools". She has an "out of the box" suggestion for the Board of Education. She proposes to set it up like the city of Camden with three Board Members elected in general election, three Board Members appointed by the Mayor, and three Board Members elected by Council.
Darren Green is also running for one of the At Large Council seats. He has considerable experience with young people and "disorderly behavior". He is presently wearing two hats as Shift Commander for the Corrections Department and Administrator of the Emily Fisher Charter School. He pointed out that many of today's trouble youth are the product of parents who themselves have never had the chance to grow up. They are very young and lack the mature skills to raise children so there is no positive role model. These youth need to be taught civility, positive values, how to be productive and here must be more parental involvement. Seniors could help by mentoring. "The old should not live in fear of the young." He thinks the city has been run into the ground and if elected, "Hold us accountable."
Our next Meet and Greet is scheduled for Wednesday afternoon, April 28, at 3 pm. Pellettieri Homes is located in the Roebling Mall at 615 S. Clinton Avenue, and everyone is welcome. The lineup for Wednesday includes: Mayoral Candidates Eric Jackson, Keith Hamilton, Paul Pintella, John Harmon and Mr. Shahid Watson. We also are expecting At Large Candidates Ernest Perez Jr., Donelle M. Presha and Phyllis Holly-Ward.
Come and meet your candidates. Trenton needs your support.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Seniors and Cars
Making a decision to give up your car and whatever independence that goes with it is not to be taken lightly. Sometimes family members pressure aging parents to stop driving after a health issue. Sometimes moving into "affordable" housing means that there is limited or nonexistent parking facilities. Sometimes limited income for someone living on Social Security or a pension means that the costs of a car, insurance, gas, tires and routine maintenance have just become too expensive. The fear of having a breakdown and needing a tow is compounded because many seniors do not use cell phones. Even contacting help in an emergency can be a challenge.
Recently AARP pointed out that while the safety record of senior drivers is no worse than the rest of the population there is a perception that they should come off the road. Last week I followed a thirtyish blonde in a white lexus who hit her brakes repeatedly in the middle of the road for no apparent reason. She drifted to one side and then the other and I estimated her speed at over 60 mph. It was only during one of her spurts of braking that I managed to pass her and then realized she was texting on her cell phone. Senior drivers have more sense.
AAA World magazine offers tips for mature drivers such as regular eye exams, getting plenty of sleep, talking to your doctor about all the medications you may be taking, and making sure your car is up-to-date on oil changes and maintenance.
I started pulling out of my parking spot one day last week and heard a flapping sound. I was planning a two hour drive and worried that I might have a flat tire. I got out, walked around the car but did not see anything, so I started up slowly and headed to Mercer Automotive on Hamilton Avenue.
Since moving to Trenton over ten years ago, one of the things I miss is being able to drive into my small town gas station and kibbitz with the mechanics. I used to have a truck business that required lots of garage time so I was more or less at home in the back bay. From the first visit at Mercer Automotive, with a nutty washer switch that noone else seemed to be able to fix, I felt right at home.
Luckily Tony was able to check the car. One of his mechanics got in, backed up about three feet, and we all spotted a bolt in the front tire. I don't think I was there twenty minutes while they dropped everything, removed the bolt, plugged the tire and had me ready to go again.
I think seniors on the road need to feel that there is a backup if they have a car problem. For me, my back up is "Senior Friendly" Mercer Automotive Service on Hamilton Avenue. Tony's phone is 609-588-4888 and you should program it into your cell phone (when you get one!). Tony and his brother also have a web site www.germancarclinic.com. because they are experts on repairing European models. I drive a lowly Hyundai but they do not discriminate!
I hope to keep driving as long as I can. I find budgeting for gas sometimes is hard but public transportation just doesn't go where I need to go. I personally can appreciate the pros and cons of the entire driving issue.
Be safe and have a nice day.
Recently AARP pointed out that while the safety record of senior drivers is no worse than the rest of the population there is a perception that they should come off the road. Last week I followed a thirtyish blonde in a white lexus who hit her brakes repeatedly in the middle of the road for no apparent reason. She drifted to one side and then the other and I estimated her speed at over 60 mph. It was only during one of her spurts of braking that I managed to pass her and then realized she was texting on her cell phone. Senior drivers have more sense.
AAA World magazine offers tips for mature drivers such as regular eye exams, getting plenty of sleep, talking to your doctor about all the medications you may be taking, and making sure your car is up-to-date on oil changes and maintenance.
I started pulling out of my parking spot one day last week and heard a flapping sound. I was planning a two hour drive and worried that I might have a flat tire. I got out, walked around the car but did not see anything, so I started up slowly and headed to Mercer Automotive on Hamilton Avenue.
Since moving to Trenton over ten years ago, one of the things I miss is being able to drive into my small town gas station and kibbitz with the mechanics. I used to have a truck business that required lots of garage time so I was more or less at home in the back bay. From the first visit at Mercer Automotive, with a nutty washer switch that noone else seemed to be able to fix, I felt right at home.
Luckily Tony was able to check the car. One of his mechanics got in, backed up about three feet, and we all spotted a bolt in the front tire. I don't think I was there twenty minutes while they dropped everything, removed the bolt, plugged the tire and had me ready to go again.
I think seniors on the road need to feel that there is a backup if they have a car problem. For me, my back up is "Senior Friendly" Mercer Automotive Service on Hamilton Avenue. Tony's phone is 609-588-4888 and you should program it into your cell phone (when you get one!). Tony and his brother also have a web site www.germancarclinic.com. because they are experts on repairing European models. I drive a lowly Hyundai but they do not discriminate!
I hope to keep driving as long as I can. I find budgeting for gas sometimes is hard but public transportation just doesn't go where I need to go. I personally can appreciate the pros and cons of the entire driving issue.
Be safe and have a nice day.
Friday, April 16, 2010
Doctors Who Make House Calls?
Do you remember the last time you had a visit from your family doctor? You woke up in the morning with a sore throat and your mom said that you could stay home from school...then you started to ache and a day off wasn't so much fun anymore.
By the time she called the doctor, you were perfectly miserable and looking for any relief. Then there was his welcome knock at the door. By this time, it even hurt to sit up. Finally. He set his worn black leather bag down on the hassock, wiggled and mashed it around so it wouldn't tip over, then opened it brusquely with a loud snap.
The doctor of my childhood had a bristly mustache and old fashioned wire rimmed glasses that he wore down at the end of his nose. He liked to peer over them and the cold touch of his stethscope was accompanied by mysterious sharp ether-medicinal smells. He growled and hummed deep in his throat as he considered his diagnosis.
The whole procedure was reasuring because you could see relief coming. A sip or teaspoonful of "tonic", little pills that he carried in his bag which were counted off in his palm and slipped into a paper envelope (the likes of which I haven't seen since), and off he went.
House calls are not extinct. Home visit service is coming to Trenton.
The company proposing to bring back this personal service is RevolutionCare and they do make house calls. The main headquarters is in Moorestown, New Jersey, and the concept seems to be tailored made for the disabled, elderly and chronically ill.
According to their spokesperson, Wayne Driscoll, Board Certified Nurse Practitioners visit you in your home. They work with your other physicians or specialists and coordinate the following in your home: routine lab testing, X-ray and EKG, diagnostic ultrasound, optometry and others. For folks who have diabetes and need testing or sudden consultation, this may even make hospital visits less frequent.
The company representative indicated that medical records will be maintained electronically and that means that all information about the patient is instantly available in case of an emergency. For geriatric and the disabled where transportation to doctor offices is a challenge, the home call option is very practical.
If you would like more information about this growing company, they may be reached toll free at 866-648-2767 or on the web at www.rev-care.com.
By the time she called the doctor, you were perfectly miserable and looking for any relief. Then there was his welcome knock at the door. By this time, it even hurt to sit up. Finally. He set his worn black leather bag down on the hassock, wiggled and mashed it around so it wouldn't tip over, then opened it brusquely with a loud snap.
The doctor of my childhood had a bristly mustache and old fashioned wire rimmed glasses that he wore down at the end of his nose. He liked to peer over them and the cold touch of his stethscope was accompanied by mysterious sharp ether-medicinal smells. He growled and hummed deep in his throat as he considered his diagnosis.
The whole procedure was reasuring because you could see relief coming. A sip or teaspoonful of "tonic", little pills that he carried in his bag which were counted off in his palm and slipped into a paper envelope (the likes of which I haven't seen since), and off he went.
House calls are not extinct. Home visit service is coming to Trenton.
The company proposing to bring back this personal service is RevolutionCare and they do make house calls. The main headquarters is in Moorestown, New Jersey, and the concept seems to be tailored made for the disabled, elderly and chronically ill.
According to their spokesperson, Wayne Driscoll, Board Certified Nurse Practitioners visit you in your home. They work with your other physicians or specialists and coordinate the following in your home: routine lab testing, X-ray and EKG, diagnostic ultrasound, optometry and others. For folks who have diabetes and need testing or sudden consultation, this may even make hospital visits less frequent.
The company representative indicated that medical records will be maintained electronically and that means that all information about the patient is instantly available in case of an emergency. For geriatric and the disabled where transportation to doctor offices is a challenge, the home call option is very practical.
If you would like more information about this growing company, they may be reached toll free at 866-648-2767 or on the web at www.rev-care.com.
Impressions From First Meet and Greet
We had such a terrific response to the Meet and Greet project here at Pellettieri Homes that we had to schedule over three different days. Wednesday's first session highlighted Mayoral candidates Frank Weeden, Manny Segura, Annette Lartigue, Tony Mack and North Ward Council candidate Marge Caldwell-Wilson. We were surprised at the real differences in approaching issues.
Frank Weeden came with shirtsleeves rolled up and his trademark knapsack, for all the world, like Trenton's Johnny Appleseed. He would like to plant new businesses in the city and develop abandoned real estate. He believes in the public school system and supports the election of school board members. Frank also believes in supporting the hiring of former prisoners. The process of returning to society after serving time is a challenge that employers can make easier by showing enough confidence in an individual to hire him.
Manny Segura is presently a Councilman at Large. His vision for Trenton includes a vocational school in order to have an alternative to the present college oriented public school system. Manny believes the most important element is "Safety, safety, safety!" He believes that investors will come into the city if they feel safe, teachers in the schools will teach more thoroughly, parents will move their families here if they feel safe. When asked about the Capital Aid question, he responded, "Governor, you come here to work every day. You come to my house every day. Together, you and I will fix this."
Annette Lartigue is West Ward Councilwoman. With two decades in Social Work, she has a unique perspective on this city. She thinks the present public school system is not preparing youngsters for their future. She favors a mentoring program that targets vulnerable 8th and 9th grades students. As to rehabilitating prisoners, "We have to create a re-entry program to let them back into the public community to be productive."
Tony Mack acknowleged our senior audience by promising that the several closed senior centers will be reopened. He also would like to implement school recreation programs. TV and the internet have made negative options available to a whole generation of youth, things that otherwise never would have occurred to them. He thinks that "beat cops", foot patrolmen, should be brought back to make the streets safer. He referred to Colin Powell's drop out prevention program and plans to model one for Trenton.
Marge Caldwell-Wilson is hoping to represent the North Ward as Councilwoman. Her ideas include a more open form of government. She is concerned about the rotting houses, broken streets, the proposed busing for public schools and proposes a buddy system for seniors. She wants to inspire volunteer efforts because they do not cost taxpayers money. This also involves the community because as she says, "You are only as strong as the community behind you."
Whew! We are looking forward to next Wednesday's Meet and Greet which is set for 7 pm. All are welcome.
Trenton rocks.
Frank Weeden came with shirtsleeves rolled up and his trademark knapsack, for all the world, like Trenton's Johnny Appleseed. He would like to plant new businesses in the city and develop abandoned real estate. He believes in the public school system and supports the election of school board members. Frank also believes in supporting the hiring of former prisoners. The process of returning to society after serving time is a challenge that employers can make easier by showing enough confidence in an individual to hire him.
Manny Segura is presently a Councilman at Large. His vision for Trenton includes a vocational school in order to have an alternative to the present college oriented public school system. Manny believes the most important element is "Safety, safety, safety!" He believes that investors will come into the city if they feel safe, teachers in the schools will teach more thoroughly, parents will move their families here if they feel safe. When asked about the Capital Aid question, he responded, "Governor, you come here to work every day. You come to my house every day. Together, you and I will fix this."
Annette Lartigue is West Ward Councilwoman. With two decades in Social Work, she has a unique perspective on this city. She thinks the present public school system is not preparing youngsters for their future. She favors a mentoring program that targets vulnerable 8th and 9th grades students. As to rehabilitating prisoners, "We have to create a re-entry program to let them back into the public community to be productive."
Tony Mack acknowleged our senior audience by promising that the several closed senior centers will be reopened. He also would like to implement school recreation programs. TV and the internet have made negative options available to a whole generation of youth, things that otherwise never would have occurred to them. He thinks that "beat cops", foot patrolmen, should be brought back to make the streets safer. He referred to Colin Powell's drop out prevention program and plans to model one for Trenton.
Marge Caldwell-Wilson is hoping to represent the North Ward as Councilwoman. Her ideas include a more open form of government. She is concerned about the rotting houses, broken streets, the proposed busing for public schools and proposes a buddy system for seniors. She wants to inspire volunteer efforts because they do not cost taxpayers money. This also involves the community because as she says, "You are only as strong as the community behind you."
Whew! We are looking forward to next Wednesday's Meet and Greet which is set for 7 pm. All are welcome.
Trenton rocks.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Transportation Needs for Seniors
The population of senior and disabled residents in the Trenton and Mercer County area is growing. We are many but of one voice. We are reaching out to the new Mayor of Trenton to address one of the quality of life issues that impacts us, that of transportation availability.
Presently we are told that the City of Trenton has two jitneys that transport seniors. There are 13 nutrition sites but only two drivers with no "floater" to cover in case of illness. A 9am pickup for lunch can result in returning home at 5pm.
The jitney cannot take wheelchair citizens. This affects many people who would like to participate and enjoy a healthy meal once a day. Recently we found that our rollator walkers could not get on the vans. Folks who were enjoying increased mobility were brought up short.
Much of the elder community gave up driving privileges to move into affordable housing. Now they need to get to doctor appointments, Senior Centers, visit friends or just shopping. This is also a barrier to any kind of volunteer or job opportunity to enable these energetic and talented people to contribute to their community.
NJ Transit routes are limited and may be blocks from the desired destination, making it impractical for handicap use. Taxi cabs cannot take wheelchair riders. Most seniors do not meet Access Link guidelines as the application process is difficult. Mercer County TRADE only picks up in the morning and ends at 4pm. If your doctor's appointment is with a surgeon who schedules you for 4:30pm when he comes into his office, TRADE will not give you a ride. TRADE is open five days a week and closed weekends and holidays, although they will transport anywhere in Mercer County. As a result, there is a segment here in our city that needs transportation.
For those seniors who still drive, but use canes or walkers, there is a real challenge to find parking close to your desired destination. We would like a representative of our community to be included in consideration of parking needs and administration in this city. There is much to be done, but we can pull it out by working together.
Trenton rocks.
Presently we are told that the City of Trenton has two jitneys that transport seniors. There are 13 nutrition sites but only two drivers with no "floater" to cover in case of illness. A 9am pickup for lunch can result in returning home at 5pm.
The jitney cannot take wheelchair citizens. This affects many people who would like to participate and enjoy a healthy meal once a day. Recently we found that our rollator walkers could not get on the vans. Folks who were enjoying increased mobility were brought up short.
Much of the elder community gave up driving privileges to move into affordable housing. Now they need to get to doctor appointments, Senior Centers, visit friends or just shopping. This is also a barrier to any kind of volunteer or job opportunity to enable these energetic and talented people to contribute to their community.
NJ Transit routes are limited and may be blocks from the desired destination, making it impractical for handicap use. Taxi cabs cannot take wheelchair riders. Most seniors do not meet Access Link guidelines as the application process is difficult. Mercer County TRADE only picks up in the morning and ends at 4pm. If your doctor's appointment is with a surgeon who schedules you for 4:30pm when he comes into his office, TRADE will not give you a ride. TRADE is open five days a week and closed weekends and holidays, although they will transport anywhere in Mercer County. As a result, there is a segment here in our city that needs transportation.
For those seniors who still drive, but use canes or walkers, there is a real challenge to find parking close to your desired destination. We would like a representative of our community to be included in consideration of parking needs and administration in this city. There is much to be done, but we can pull it out by working together.
Trenton rocks.
Friday, April 9, 2010
Meet and Greet Candidates for Mayor and Council
There are three "Meet and Greet" events scheduled at Pellettieri Homes.
April 14 at 3:00p.m. Mayoral Candidates Frank Weeden, Manny Segura, Annette Lartigue and Tony Mack are scheduled to speak. Also featured are Marge Caldwell-Wilson, a North Ward Council candidate, and Christine Donahue running for one of the At-Large seats.
April 21 at 7p.m. is an evening session for the following candidates: Roland Laird and Divine Allah, both running for the North Ward Council seat being vacated by Milford Bethea, Tywannette "Missy" Balmir, Darren Green and Algernon Ward, Jr. all running for At Large Council seats.
April 28 at 3:00p.m. features the following: Eric Jackson, Keith Hamilton, Paul Pintella, John E. Harmon, (all hoping to be the next Mayor of Trenton), Donelle M. Presha and Phyllis Holly-Ward,(running for At Large Council positions).
The ballot this year is going to look like one of those sheets they feature at a shotgun raffle. I seem to remember that they write your name in a grid on the paper and then someone shoots birdshot at it. The winner is determined by where the pellets hit. Voting results here may be equally scattered because I counted 37 persons running for office. With so many candidates, of course it is possible there may be a runoff election, but being informed and meeting the candidates will help us focus the first time around.
I also am of the opinion that we have to hand it to outgoing Mayor Doug Palmer. He made it look so easy that almost everyone can picture himself doing the job. Certainly there is an atmosphere that we ourselves, ordinary people, can fix this, that one of us can make it right. Either that or we are just too naive or stubborn to admit that we're screwed.
Pellettieri Homes is located at 615 South Clinton Avenue in the Roebling Market. It is the distinguished and rennovated factory building that looks like it should be the Social Security Office. LOL.
Have a good day.
April 14 at 3:00p.m. Mayoral Candidates Frank Weeden, Manny Segura, Annette Lartigue and Tony Mack are scheduled to speak. Also featured are Marge Caldwell-Wilson, a North Ward Council candidate, and Christine Donahue running for one of the At-Large seats.
April 21 at 7p.m. is an evening session for the following candidates: Roland Laird and Divine Allah, both running for the North Ward Council seat being vacated by Milford Bethea, Tywannette "Missy" Balmir, Darren Green and Algernon Ward, Jr. all running for At Large Council seats.
April 28 at 3:00p.m. features the following: Eric Jackson, Keith Hamilton, Paul Pintella, John E. Harmon, (all hoping to be the next Mayor of Trenton), Donelle M. Presha and Phyllis Holly-Ward,(running for At Large Council positions).
The ballot this year is going to look like one of those sheets they feature at a shotgun raffle. I seem to remember that they write your name in a grid on the paper and then someone shoots birdshot at it. The winner is determined by where the pellets hit. Voting results here may be equally scattered because I counted 37 persons running for office. With so many candidates, of course it is possible there may be a runoff election, but being informed and meeting the candidates will help us focus the first time around.
I also am of the opinion that we have to hand it to outgoing Mayor Doug Palmer. He made it look so easy that almost everyone can picture himself doing the job. Certainly there is an atmosphere that we ourselves, ordinary people, can fix this, that one of us can make it right. Either that or we are just too naive or stubborn to admit that we're screwed.
Pellettieri Homes is located at 615 South Clinton Avenue in the Roebling Market. It is the distinguished and rennovated factory building that looks like it should be the Social Security Office. LOL.
Have a good day.
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Art Opportunities
It must be Spring because art is in the air. I just opened my Burlington County Arts bulletin and the very first listing is an announcement for our own Gallery 125 here in Trenton. The title is "4Elements Graffiti Show". There is an April 16 deadline for entries and the show is slated for June 11 through August 7. Contact information: Gallery 125, 125 S. Warren St, Trenton, NJ 08608. Phone # 609-989-9119 or email gallery125@trenton-downtown.com
The entries are to be submitted as JPEG images on a single CD.
I remember when the now defunct Trenton Arts Connection was making a valiant effort to energize the potential of Trenton's creative community. The most successful business that emerged from that point in time was Gallery 125. Every time I see a call for entries, I pull out work and, every time, I am brought up short by feelings of not being "now enough", "How can I get stuff into digital form?"...even, "Where will I park?"
The popularity that this gallery enjoys is commendable. I am sure that being across the street from the Marriott doesn't hurt, but the balance and variety of artists' work ensures a really interesting visit. Also, First Friday shopping is really good for visitors to the city. Way to go, everyone! Now if I just can get handicap parking....
Burlington County Art Guild's 38th Robert Ransley Open Juried Art Exhibition is accepting entries. Contact information is Donna Sensor Thomas @ 856-234-1746. The Entry Delivery is Friday April 30, 4-6pm. Show dates are May 2 to May 28. This show is held at the Dr. David Flinker Pavilion Gallery of Virtua Memorial Hospital of Burlington County, 175 Madison Avenue, Mount Holly, NJ.
Note the differences in the above show announcements. Gallery 125 is for a JPEG CD, the Burlington Art Guild show is a hand-carry entry, and the Eastern State Penitentiary opportunity is even more unique.
Eastern State Penitentiary is looking for proposals for artists installations for its 1011 tourist season. Deadline is June 14th at 4pm. Go to the website for details: http://www.easternstate.org/exhibits/guidelines.php
For me, the highlight for the upcoming summer is Art All Night by Artworks here in Trenton. I will have a lot to say about this incredible event in future blogs because they are so dear to my heart.
Trenton rocks!
The entries are to be submitted as JPEG images on a single CD.
I remember when the now defunct Trenton Arts Connection was making a valiant effort to energize the potential of Trenton's creative community. The most successful business that emerged from that point in time was Gallery 125. Every time I see a call for entries, I pull out work and, every time, I am brought up short by feelings of not being "now enough", "How can I get stuff into digital form?"...even, "Where will I park?"
The popularity that this gallery enjoys is commendable. I am sure that being across the street from the Marriott doesn't hurt, but the balance and variety of artists' work ensures a really interesting visit. Also, First Friday shopping is really good for visitors to the city. Way to go, everyone! Now if I just can get handicap parking....
Burlington County Art Guild's 38th Robert Ransley Open Juried Art Exhibition is accepting entries. Contact information is Donna Sensor Thomas @ 856-234-1746. The Entry Delivery is Friday April 30, 4-6pm. Show dates are May 2 to May 28. This show is held at the Dr. David Flinker Pavilion Gallery of Virtua Memorial Hospital of Burlington County, 175 Madison Avenue, Mount Holly, NJ.
Note the differences in the above show announcements. Gallery 125 is for a JPEG CD, the Burlington Art Guild show is a hand-carry entry, and the Eastern State Penitentiary opportunity is even more unique.
Eastern State Penitentiary is looking for proposals for artists installations for its 1011 tourist season. Deadline is June 14th at 4pm. Go to the website for details: http://www.easternstate.org/exhibits/guidelines.php
For me, the highlight for the upcoming summer is Art All Night by Artworks here in Trenton. I will have a lot to say about this incredible event in future blogs because they are so dear to my heart.
Trenton rocks!
Monday, April 5, 2010
Census Changes Impact Seniors
If you have not filled out the Census form, please do so immediately. There has been a slow response so a second mailing went out last week in case you lost the first one. If you completed and mailed the huge first edition, you can throw out the mini version. You will not be asked for financial information and, if you are, it is a scam. The worst that can happen if you do not fill out the form, is that a Census worker will contact you to take the information about your living arrangements personally. Then you have to comply.
The most recent Annual Community Census, as given to me in a NJ Foundation for the Aging fact sheet, states that 75+percent of Mercer County seniors are white and only 5 percent are Hispanic. The Census in 2000 showed that the Trenton area was approximately 65 percent mixed Hispanic. The other approximately 35 percent was White, Asian, and African American. This illustrates that our aging population has good reason to feel left behind. Most of our working or younger population is different culturally than that of our oldest residents. The stimulating diversity of our Mercer County population is rich in potential of course, but these seniors are looking for the familiar.
As any community adjusts to changes in culture, there are subtle changes that are more felt than shown. The sense of being uprooted starts with language. Many of my eighty and ninety year old friends recalling their own immigrant histories, commented,
"When my parents came over here, they had to learn English."
"How come the church mass is in Spanish? It takes twice as long because the priest says everything in both English and Spanish!".
"When we went to school we spoke English and when we went home we spoke Italian (or Polish) so how come we see all these signs in Spanish..."
"I'm not going to learn Spanish. They have to learn English."
As your income shrinks and you cannot stay in your home of over twenty years, you look for "affordable" housing and then have to adjust to new surroundings. Sometimes medical conditions mean that your home cannot be modified to your needs and you have to go to assisted living or a nursing home. One of the most tragic examples is my mother who drove herself to a routine doctor's appointment, was admitted to the hospital and then a nursing home, and was never to set foot in her home again. There are good reasons for folks to be distracted or depressed.
Put yourself in their shoes. You used to walk into your house, put your car keys on the table by the door, walk down the hall setting your groceries on the counter just thirty paces away, reach without thinking for your tea and kettle...right? These were familiar conforting things.
When one of my friends moved into her "affordable" apartment, she lived out of bags that were never unpacked. The stress of making decisions as to where to place these elements of necessary living, that might never be found again, kept her from physically making the move for months. These bags represented the hall table and drawers, the dining room buffet, the kitchen utility closet and so forth. People who help the elderly to relocate and think they are doing them a favor to get rid of "things" do not understand how disorienting this can be. Better to live out of bags or boxes than to feel the terror that life that has moved on out of your control.
One of the things we can control...completing the US Census forms. This will supply the necessary demographics to give elected representatives the scope of our aging population to assure that we get our fair share of attention and services. Instead of being bewildered and confused, we have to focus on our concerns. The Census is our best proof of our numbers.
The most recent Annual Community Census, as given to me in a NJ Foundation for the Aging fact sheet, states that 75+percent of Mercer County seniors are white and only 5 percent are Hispanic. The Census in 2000 showed that the Trenton area was approximately 65 percent mixed Hispanic. The other approximately 35 percent was White, Asian, and African American. This illustrates that our aging population has good reason to feel left behind. Most of our working or younger population is different culturally than that of our oldest residents. The stimulating diversity of our Mercer County population is rich in potential of course, but these seniors are looking for the familiar.
As any community adjusts to changes in culture, there are subtle changes that are more felt than shown. The sense of being uprooted starts with language. Many of my eighty and ninety year old friends recalling their own immigrant histories, commented,
"When my parents came over here, they had to learn English."
"How come the church mass is in Spanish? It takes twice as long because the priest says everything in both English and Spanish!".
"When we went to school we spoke English and when we went home we spoke Italian (or Polish) so how come we see all these signs in Spanish..."
"I'm not going to learn Spanish. They have to learn English."
As your income shrinks and you cannot stay in your home of over twenty years, you look for "affordable" housing and then have to adjust to new surroundings. Sometimes medical conditions mean that your home cannot be modified to your needs and you have to go to assisted living or a nursing home. One of the most tragic examples is my mother who drove herself to a routine doctor's appointment, was admitted to the hospital and then a nursing home, and was never to set foot in her home again. There are good reasons for folks to be distracted or depressed.
Put yourself in their shoes. You used to walk into your house, put your car keys on the table by the door, walk down the hall setting your groceries on the counter just thirty paces away, reach without thinking for your tea and kettle...right? These were familiar conforting things.
When one of my friends moved into her "affordable" apartment, she lived out of bags that were never unpacked. The stress of making decisions as to where to place these elements of necessary living, that might never be found again, kept her from physically making the move for months. These bags represented the hall table and drawers, the dining room buffet, the kitchen utility closet and so forth. People who help the elderly to relocate and think they are doing them a favor to get rid of "things" do not understand how disorienting this can be. Better to live out of bags or boxes than to feel the terror that life that has moved on out of your control.
One of the things we can control...completing the US Census forms. This will supply the necessary demographics to give elected representatives the scope of our aging population to assure that we get our fair share of attention and services. Instead of being bewildered and confused, we have to focus on our concerns. The Census is our best proof of our numbers.
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